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Thy Will be Done

Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.

Matthew 6:10
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No one wants to deal with pain—broken relationships, death, illness, abuse. If we could live in a world where these things did not exist, we would have far less to fear and far less to grieve over. While a life with Jesus is not a life absent of suffering it is a life that offers an answer to what to do with the suffering. We’re not left alone to deal with it. Because of the gospel we have a place to go with our suffering.

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Jesus knew his suffering was coming. He knew the purpose. He knew how the story was going to end. When we’re in the middle of grieving the unexpected death of a best friend or dealing with the diagnosis we never saw coming, we often feel like we don’t know what the next day will look like. Will we hurt this much forever? Will every day feel like a fight against our grief and fear?

Step back and look at it against the bigger, eternal, Jesus-minded picture. Do you know how your current circumstances turn out? You may not. But do you know how your story ends? You do. No matter your circumstances you will spend eternity with God. A life with Jesus doesn’t always mean cancer disappears, but you have a God who sees your pain, sees your anger, sees your fear and isn’t afraid of your feelings about it. And death? It has no sting. Scripture shows example after example of the way God meets his people in their lowest, ugliest, darkest moments. He moves in ways that are bigger than we can imagine and teaches us things we never thought possible.

Looking for the kingdom purpose in our trials seems like a backwards way to live, but it’s all for his glory.

“Being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father” (Philippians 2:8–11).

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The freedom we have in Jesus means we can let go of controlling every little detail of our lives and live with open hands. We can seek what he wants first. To some of us, letting go of control may not feel like a gift, but what if we realize that the story we are trying to write was never ours to write in the first place? Every part of our lives is working to reflect God’s image and glory, even the suffering. What if we actually prayed what Jesus taught us to in Matthew?

“Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10).

Christian author and speaker Elisabeth Elliot’s first husband, Jim, was murdered while they were missionaries in Ecuador. She later remarried and lost her second husband, Addison, to cancer. She knew suffering but still she said, “If your prayers don’t get answered the way you thought they were supposed to be, what happens to your faith? The world says God doesn’t love you. The Scriptures tell me something very different.


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He is teaching me (since past 3 years) about declaring His promises over myself, my life and others during battle and struggles. I never realized before how passive a part I was playing and praying only for ‘help’. He is telling me who I am in Him and how to ‘fight’ these battles with Him. This has changed my world incredibly and my belief in Him, my faith has changed. Learning more about the Authority that comes from Him alone is my greatest weapon, and I feel the oppression lift and the freedom come. Thank you Jesus and Holy Spirit for the power you promise to your children!

I have learned that what I think is right is not always what God thinks is right or what I need right now. I have to submit to his will…not the other way around and pray he will submit to my wishes and desires.

He has taught me that through my hardest moments He is still there, and always will be. He loves me unconditionally!

God has taught me that He is always there. He can and will use my experiences to fulfill his purpose.

I’m going through one of the hardest times in my life right now. My husbands suddenly death 2 months ago was never anything I thought I would ever be faced with. He was seemly healthy and we had so many plans for the future. But our plans are not always Gods plans. God has taught me that he went before to prepare this path I would be on from friends to small group family, from legal aid to financial advisors. God put people in my life years ahead that would be there for me in the days, weeks and years to come. He was so real to me and to my non believing family. It was supernatural the way God provided for me and my son. God has been teaching me to trust him even when I don’t know what the future holds. He will provide for me.

As I look back on some moments that have been so hard, it is easy to see how God was in and over those moments. He was in control; He had a plan. God has taught me that no matter how much I try to control everything, I really am not in control. He has also taught me that He’s there. Always. Even when it’s hard and when it seems impossible. God provides ways out; He puts people in our lives at just the right time or gives us provisions just when we need them. It’s easy to look back and see all this – the real test is to be in the midst of a hard situation and to see His glory through it all.

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