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I tell you, this man went down to his house justified, rather than the other. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.

Luke 18:14
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C. S. Lewis said, “We all want progress. But progress means getting nearer to the place where you want to be. And if you have taken a wrong turn, then to go forward does not get you any nearer. If you are on the wrong road, progress means doing an about-turn and walking back to the right road.”1 To make progress in our sanctification, we have to acknowledge that we have turned off God’s path. In confession, we can do no good apart from God.

We all like to think that we know where we are and where we are headed. To admit to ourselves or to others that we’ve made a wrong turn means to admit to weakness and vulnerability. But to ignore our sin is to live in lies. It distances us from God, from others, and even from ourselves. It distances us from what God has for us. Only through confession can we get back on God’s path of life.

Confession: Recognizing the Truth

In Luke 18, two men stand before God. The first man polishes his goody-two-shoes badge, smirking at the dismal man before him. He hides the depth of his own sin from God and from himself, trapping himself in a prison of his own making, like the witch who locks herself up in her own tower at the end of Rapunzel.

The second man confesses to God that he is a sinner. He recognizes the truth about himself, and this truth sets him free. No longer does he have to pretend to God, to others, or to himself. No longer does he need to keep up some false image. No longer does he need to plod forward on an increasingly thorny and ominous path. “God, be merciful to me, a sinner!” he cries, and in this confession, he discovers freedom (Luke 8:13). He recognizes who he is, and he recognizes his need for God’s mercy. And God exalts him.


We must also confess our sins to those we have hurt. To love one’s neighbor includes healing wounds we’ve inflicted. When we’ve sinned against a brother or sister in Christ, these wounds tear at the very body of Christ, which hinders our worship of God. Jesus tells us, “If you are offering your gift at the altar and remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift” (Matthew 5:23–24). Our humbleness—our recognition of who we truly are—is not only before God but before others too, just as our sanctification is not just our growth in Jesus; but our growth in the body of Christ.


1C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity (New York: Macmillan, 1952), 36.


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Consider now what specific sins you keep hidden from God and from others. What would happen if you confessed them? What about that threatens you? How does it offer freedom?

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I believe confessing sin to others is helpful to both you and the person you are confessing to. It lets you confess but then the other person sees your obedience and courage and might be encouraged to confess too. I remember one time I confessed to a friend something I was hiding from everyone around me and in a conversation with this friend I felt convicted I had to tell her what was going on. It was hard, I cried, I was embarrassed, BUT I WAS FREED.

When I confess to God, I am always humbled. Just getting off my chest my struggles and wrongdoings makes me realize how human I am and how thankful I am that God forgives me, strengthens me, and guides me back to his light and way. The more I’ve grown in my faith I also know God already knows of my sin and what happened. I just have to acknowledge it. I can’t hide anything or tell him something he doesn’t already know.

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